Healing doesn’t happen all at once, but it does begin with one intentional step. When you heal, you become light and airy, free from bitterness, anger and resentment, you begin to walk in a peace and love that surpasses all understanding. A state of mind and being that only God can give... this is you Becoming the Awe-inspiring You.
If you’re ready to grow, process, and draw closer to God, and truly live in His love and benefits, here’s how to use Become the Awe-Inspiring You to support your healing journey:
💬 Step 1: Use the “Ask Shay” Page
You don’t have to figure everything out alone. If you need guidance, clarity, or encouragement this space is for you. I invite you here to share your heart with someone who understands your pain and will give unbiased biblical responses to your questions and concerns.
👉 What to do:
- Submit your questions or what you’re going through
- Be open and honest
- Receive insight rooted in faith and healing
💬 Step 2. Visit the “After the Breakup” Page
There are so many thoughts that flood the mind after a breakup. Emotions are heightened, tears flow, the future feels uncertain. Here you can gain a sense of emotional control, pause and process before making hasty decisions.
👉 What to do:
- Should you stay friends or not
- Taking emotions out of the drivers seat
- Stock up on resources to work through the pain in God's presence
🤍 Step 3. Go to the “Heal” Page
This is where you begin.
Take your time reading through the content and allow yourself to be honest about what you’re feeling. Don’t rush this part because healing starts with acknowledgment. Healing takes time and healing takes work to renew your mind.
👉 What to do:
- Reflect on what resonates with you
- Journal your thoughts and emotions
- Invite God into what you’re processing
🌿Step 4. Visit the “Process Hurt” Page
This section helps you work through your emotions instead of avoiding them. Healing requires you to face what hurt you with God. Healing attachment wounds is the first article here to help you understand love as an attachment and the importance of guarding your heart.
👉 What to do:
- Identify what you’re holding onto (pain, anger, confusion)
- Be real with God in prayer
- Allow yourself to release what you’ve been carrying
🙏 Step 5. Spend Time on the “Trust God” Page
This page helps you shift from control to surrender. When things don’t make sense, this is where your faith grows. God sees, knows and cares about you. As you trust Him you grow in confidence, strength and understanding.
👉 What to do:
- Read slowly and meditate on the message
- Pray and surrender your situation to God
- Choose trust, even if you don’t have all the answers
📖Step 6. Explore the Blog
There are a variety of blog posts created to meet you where you are; whether you’re dealing with heartbreak, confusion, emotional pain, or disappointment. If you're trying to figure out what do next, or what decision to make. Explore the blogposts in depth. Healing is going to take disciple, reading life changing material and putting in the investment to read and grow in God's presence.
👉 What to do:
- Read topics that align with what you’re currently facing
- Take notes on what speaks to you
- Apply what you learn to your daily life
📚 Step 7. God Deeper with Books and Visit the Bookstore
My name is Lashay White. You can find out more about me at ask Shay.
In the process of God healing my heart, I became inspired to write books help process heartbreak in God's presence. I invite you to explore my published work designed to help you heal from heartbreak and you'll hear about my journey through healing from heartbreak. I am here to tell you that you can heal and you will heal. Don't give up! You will live and not die and declare the works of the Lord. God has a wonderful future ahead of you. He has a purpose for your life. He has a spouse for you if you desire to marry. God knows past present and future. You can trust your life to Him. He loves you. Click on the bookstore link to support my work.
👉 What to do:
- Choose a book that speaks to your current season
- Read it intentionally, not rushed
- Journal and pray through what you learn
- Allow God to meet you personally through the process
- Journey to Purpose is my personal journey to freedom and I believe it will bless you
- Soon It Will Be Past Tense is also available in the bookstore and this book allows you to process hurt with me as I document 100 days after my heartbreak
🙌 Step 8. Pray Through the Healing Process
There are prayers available within the blogposts, usually at the end of the article, to help guide your conversations with God when you don’t have the words. Additionally, click the contact link to submit a prayer request so that we can pray for you.
👉 What to do:
- Pray intentionally, not just casually
- Ask God to reveal, heal, and restore
- Stay consistent, even when it’s hard
- Use the Contact page to submit a prayer request
- I want to pray with you and for you
💛Step 9. Support the Mission (Donations)
If this platform has helped you heal, grow, or get closer to God, consider supporting the mission. Your donation helps continue creating faith-based content, resources, and tools that reach others who are in need of healing and hope.
👉 What to do:
- Give as you feel led
- Know that your support is helping someone else begin their healing journey
- Partner in spreading encouragement, faith, and restoration
- Totally optional... our priority is your healing and the website is designed for you to do so for free
🌅 Final Step: Be Consistent
Healing is not a one-time visit, it’s a daily decision.
✨ Keep coming back, read the blogs, explore each page, journal and save this website
✨ Keep seeking God
✨ Keep doing the work: healing is not overnight it's a daily decision to do the work in God's presence
God is not rushing your healing, He is walking with you through it.
You are not alone. Heartbreak can feel so lonely but know that God is with you and now the awe-inspiringyou.com is with you to support and encourage your healing journey.
